How to Tell If Your Elderly Loved One May Need Home Care

With luck, your loved one will remain self-sufficient for a long time. But as we age, there may come a time when your loved one requires additional care. Suppose your elderly loved one can’t perform daily tasks such as dressing, bathing, and cooking anymore. When things change in this way, it might be time to seek out the appropriate home care agencies who will be able to help you with that responsibility.

The world’s population is aging, according to a report produced by the UN (United Nations). Almost every country globally is seeing an increase in the number and proportion of older people, transforming how we think about professional in-home care. You can find more information here.

Here are some key pointers to keep in mind when deciding whether or not professional carers are needed:

Confusion when performing familiar tasks

Have you noticed that things that used to be regular, everyday tasks get forgotten? Does your loved one have trouble with daily rituals such as preparing meals, shopping, or doing laundry? Confusion could be due to several things, including possible dementia, strokes, medication side effects, diabetes, and thyroid problems, or it could just be age-related forgetfulness.

However, if a noticeable change and confusion interferes with daily life, it may be time to hire a caregiver. Most age-related problems can be easily managed and relieved with the right kind of professional help.

Long periods of inactivity

If your loved one is spending hours watching television or sleeping, it might be time to ask yourself if that’s normal for them? If you answer yes, it’s probably not a sign that they need professional caregivers. But, if there has been a noticeable change and your loved one is spending most of their days doing nothing and has lost the motivation to engage with you and others, that could be a sign that more care is required. 

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Isolation from others

Being lonely and feeling isolated can lead to depression which may increase confusion and tiredness and make them feel frustrated rather than satisfied when tasks are completed. So how can you ensure an older person gets the social time they need? Hire a caregiver who can spend quality time with them and make sure you visit as often as possible.

Poor hygiene

If your elderly dependant is no longer able to bathe or groom themselves properly, it’s going to hurt their self-esteem. It will also likely make them more susceptible to skin problems such as pressure sores, fungal infections, and possibly even pneumonia if their hygiene is neglected for too long.

If they’re not willing to take the steps they need to stay clean, then perhaps hiring professional caregivers would be wise. Steps can be taken so that you can give them the kind of care they need without damaging your relationship with them about such a personal matter.

Maintaining mutual respect and dignity is essential in the later years of anyone’s life. No one wants to feel that they are a burden to their family or friends.

Unhappy with changes in routine

Often we expect our loved ones to be comfortable with change. But, if your loved one has problems adjusting to changes in their daily routine, it might be time for you to consider professional carers who are capable of maintaining a sense of stability in uncertain times.

Loss of appetite or weight loss

If your loved one no longer takes pleasure in eating or loses weight despite the fact they’re not on any restrictive diet, there could be something going on that requires medical attention.

Suppose you suspect they have an undiagnosed infection. In that case, hiring caregivers will help ensure they get food and drink when required without the risk of choking or getting dehydrated, which could lead to serious health problems later down the line.

Losing interest in activities previously enjoyed

Do you have a loved one who no longer seems interested in the activities they used to enjoy or who refuses to attend social gatherings?

Non-participation is another indicator that could suggest depression and, in the long run, contribute to feelings of isolation.

Think about your needs 

It’s impossible to offer quality care if you are constantly worried or exhausted from looking after your loved one. To provide an older person the care they need, you must decide what your role is in the relationship and outsource any requirements that might negatively affect your relationship to maintain healthy boundaries and protect your mental health.

So, what will you do if your elderly loved one isn’t yet showing signs that they need more help but you think the time to review their care is approaching?

Plan ahead

It might be wise to talk to them about personal care options before any problems arise. It’s an excellent idea for your older person to know about the different home care services available so they can control how they want to be treated and cared for in the future.

Never underestimate the importance of respect! Your elderly loved one is not a child; they have their views and opinions on being looked after. Ensure you treat them with dignity at all times.

Remember, it takes a lot of courage for your loved one to admit that they might need help around the home, so consider broaching the problem slowly, carefully, and tactfully. With luck, your elderly relative or friend might be grateful to have that productive conversation with you.

Maintain stability

Professional caregivers can help your elderly relative maintain a sense of stability by catering to their specific needs and keeping routines that may have become difficult for them to maintain.

Hiring qualified, dependable caregivers will allow you to concentrate on what matters most: your loved one. So you can focus entirely on the broader picture and make them feel safe, comfortable, and appreciated.

Everyone benefits in this way. You’ll have the peace of mind that comes with knowing they’re being looked for by someone who knows what they’re doing, and your loved ones will be treated with the respect and dignity they deserve, without feeling like a burden or worrying about their health deteriorating.

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